Thinking, you are separated from existence. Thinking is not a relation, it is not a bridge, it is not a communication ― it is a barrier. Non-thinking you are related, bridged; you are in communion. When you are talking to someone, you are not related. The very talk becomes a barrier. The more you talk, the further away you move. If you are with someone in silence, you are related. If the silence is really deep and there are no thoughts in your mind and both the minds are totally silent, you are one.
Whenever you are silent with someone, you are one. When you are silent with existence, you are one with it.
This technique says be silent with existence and then you will know what God is. There is only one dialogue with existence and that is in silence. If you talk with existence, you miss. Then you are enveloped in your own thoughts.
Try this as an experiment. Try it with anything ― even with a rock. Be silent with it ― take it in your hand and be silent ― and there will be a communion. You will move deep into the rock and the rock will move deep into you. Your secrets will be revealed to the rock and the rock will reveal its secrets to you. But you cannot use language with it. The rock doesn’t know any language.
Confined in thoughts you will be in misery. Unconfined, beyond thoughts ― alert, conscious, aware, but unclouded by thoughts ― you will be joy, you will be bliss.